innsbrook missouri is where we headed this year for spring break. it is a large resort community centered around several lakes and natural surroundings. we rented a lake house which sat right on a small private lake. sheer bliss. we had our own little boat, canoe and kayak. the kids played hard from sun up to sun down every day. molly and i hiked through the trails daily, earning our marshmallows each night. carson joined us on the last day and he spotted a sleeping deer - bedded down in the pine during the heat of the day. the weather was awesome - low 80's every day and sunny.
it was incredible to not have work, laundry, school etc. to fuss with and just enjoy our little family.
nobody wanted to leave and we all kind of had a sad feeling in our guts pulling away. its not that we don't love our home and the kids were thrilled to see their neighbor friends when they got back. its just that as soon as we pull into the driveway mom and dad are no longer the fun relaxed game playing parents... its back to laundry, bills and chores. this time we proved them differently. we got home - threw the laundry to the side and immediately took the kids to crown center for the afternoon, then off shopping for a fire pit in which we broke in the first night with a giant marshmallow roast for all of their friends. it struck me how happy it made my children to be with their parents and get their undivided attention - to not have my brain on housework and chores, only half heartedly interacting with them most nights. i promise to give them more of me, not just on vacation, but daily turn my brain off of all the outside stressors and just focus on the amazing little beings that they are.
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